Separated at birth

[SydneyRover]

To cheat once might be forgiven but to continue cheating is surely a sign of not only weakness but being untrustworthy to those close to you.
How can anyone else be expehcted to trust him?

because I know people who I would trust with my life yet they doubtfully will never stay faithful to there partner

I have a problem with a person that tells/told me that they are OTS, it affects me in that I know they cannot be trusted with one of the most important parts of their own life and therefore shows how they deal with things of lesser import it also compromises me if I also know their partner.

[bpoolrover]

But you don’t no what goes on behind closed doors, there are many reasons why people have affairs

[bpoolrover]

Let’s say your best mate of 30 years had a Affair does that mean you can’t trust him? If it does you would not be much of a mate would you?

[SydneyRover]

I'm just telling you what I think bp, what you think about your personal friendships is up to you.

[bpoolrover]

That’s fine Sydney I agree it’s personal opinion

[idler]

I try never to do anything to someone that I wouldn't want doing to me.

[bpoolrover]

I try never to do anything to someone that I wouldn't want doing to me.
Completely agree idler but the world is not that simple at times, but if you stick to that you won’t go far wrong