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Who are we to argue??Sorry, can't agree. We've all been through bereavement of close loved ones. Divorce (twice in my case! 😅😂😆) Do we all turn to snorting the odd line of coke? No we don't. I don't know what action the police took, I don't even know if there was enough evidence to prosecute. I hope there was, and I hope as he's in the position he is, he goes to clink for a couple of months.A fine example to set to impressionable youngsters
They don't do hair samples, just urine and blood, I'm pretty sure the players don't know, the testers turn up at the training ground and players houses, they may get a day or two notice but that's it. I looked into this once as part of university course and out of 1300 tests that year I think it was 5 that were found positive.One was performance enhancing the others were cannabis
So, if he'd never done Coke before, how did he know where to get it from, how much to take and more to the point that its effect would in any way provide him the escape from the terrible trauma that he desired.Didn't he have a wife/partner who must have needed his support at such a terrible time? What about her needs? Bit of a selfish knob if you ask me.
People cope with profound grief and loss in different ways. Give the guy a break
I've never taken cocaine before, but if I wanted to I'm sure I could have some within the hour and I would know how much to take.
Quote from: coventryrover on September 11, 2015, 01:21:16 pmPeople cope with profound grief and loss in different ways. Give the guy a breakWould you be saying that if he'd 'coped with his profound grief' by doing something else illegal like getting pissed then running somebody over? 'Give him a break'?
Quote from: Glyn_Wigley on September 12, 2015, 07:43:38 amQuote from: coventryrover on September 11, 2015, 01:21:16 pmPeople cope with profound grief and loss in different ways. Give the guy a breakWould you be saying that if he'd 'coped with his profound grief' by doing something else illegal like getting pissed then running somebody over? 'Give him a break'?I am taking his reasons as genuine, its what I do rather than read other things into it. Coke is relatively easy to get. Maybe he's used it before, remembered how it made him feel and opted for it to help him cope.The human being is a fragile person,particularly when a new parent loses a child so long. Think about the intense nine months which occur when your partners expecting. Then to have them snatched away its bound to cause grief issues.If you haven't been in his place its very hard to accpt your comments as you dont know what hes going through. So yes, I am taking the reports as written and giving the guy a break
Quote from: i_ateallthepies on September 11, 2015, 09:08:01 pmSo, if he'd never done Coke before, how did he know where to get it from, how much to take and more to the point that its effect would in any way provide him the escape from the terrible trauma that he desired.Didn't he have a wife/partner who must have needed his support at such a terrible time? What about her needs? Bit of a selfish knob if you ask me.To describe any man who lost there nearly born son as selfish is horrific. Take a look at yourself. And think of the situation and circumstances.