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Title: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 14, 2014, 10:00:08 pm
I know a number of you on here have been good enough to give Stefan advice and guidance over the past couple of months,  and have been very supportive of his desire to find some work in the UK. Last week he came to Barnsley and has a job at ASOS in Grimethorpe and seems to be settling in slowly.

However,  I've received a message from his cousin Robert tonight to let me know that Stefan was taken to hospital today with "a fever".   I've managed to track him down to the Acute Medical Unit in Barnsley Hospital but they are unable to tell me too much about his condition. They are struggling with the language barrier a bit,  so as I work now about a mile from the hospital i will visit tomorrow to see if I can help. If anyone has any messages of support or well wishes I'll pass them on.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: scaley back rover on May 14, 2014, 10:09:17 pm
Wish him a speedy recovery fm me pls pal
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: wilts rover on May 14, 2014, 10:15:12 pm
Poor lad what a welcome to the UK. Yes please wish him a speedy recovery from me too. How about getting him something from the club although I suppose the players will be off on their jollys now to get him a card done?
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: afro goal machine on May 14, 2014, 10:16:06 pm
Terrible news, get well soon mr hope everythings ok
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Dutch Uncle on May 14, 2014, 10:21:35 pm
Best wishes for a speedy recovery and a successful time in Yorkshire from me too
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 14, 2014, 10:39:46 pm
I'll pass on your good wishes. Hopefully they will give him a boost n his recovery. 
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: BillyStubbsTears on May 14, 2014, 10:41:56 pm
Good luck to the lad.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: DonnyBazR0ver on May 14, 2014, 10:48:14 pm
Very best wishes to him and hope for a speedy recovery. 

Did nobody warn him about Barnsley. He's probably in shock.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: BobG on May 14, 2014, 10:51:49 pm
Oh. Poor lad. Please do give him my best too Rob. P'raps you should tell him to leave the beer alone for a bit? Getting out of Barnsley of course would also help.

He'll be miserable as sin sat in hospital on his Jack Jones a thousand miles away from anyone he knows. So you visiting Rob will be fantastic. Well done you, mate, and good luck and all the very best to Stefan.

Bob

Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: afro goal machine on May 14, 2014, 10:52:37 pm
Very best wishes to him and hope for a speedy recovery. 

Did nobody warn him about Barnsley. He's probably in shock.

or been to cudworth market
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: River Don on May 14, 2014, 11:29:37 pm
Oh dear, the poor lad,

 Barnsley you say?

And on top of that he's poorly too. Hope he's feeling better soon.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: PDX_Rover on May 15, 2014, 01:04:52 am
Give him the best from Portland.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: IDM on May 15, 2014, 07:56:55 am
Best wishes to Stefan for a quick recovery...
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: dumbroofer on May 15, 2014, 08:50:31 am
DMC were you not warned off going to dingleland?
Make a speedy recovery fella, good luck...
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Filo on May 15, 2014, 08:58:52 am
All the best Stefan, entering Barnsley without the necessary innoculations is always going to be dodgy :-)
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: donnygav93 on May 15, 2014, 09:36:42 am
Pass on my regards rob I think I've sorted a room to rent as soon as he is better I'll pop my number to you now and potentially try to get up to hospital today/tomorrow
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 15, 2014, 03:38:36 pm
I've been to see Stefan at lunchtime. He's struggling to get his words out a bit,  and is on IV steroids and has had a Ct scan this morning.  Seems OK in himself though.  I passed on all your good wishes and showed him the messages and it brought a smile.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Glyn_Wigley on May 15, 2014, 04:24:02 pm
Best wishes to him.

I bet he caught something off a UKIP supporter... ;)
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Filo on May 15, 2014, 04:32:30 pm
Top man Rob, I bet Stefan was grateful of a friendly visitor, any idea whats up with him?
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Scooter on May 15, 2014, 06:06:04 pm
Get well soon Stefan. Maybe the club could have a whip round and relocate him back across the DMBC border. If he works in grimethorpe can't someone find him a place to live in someone live in scawsby or scawthorpe?
They are not that far away
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: big fat yorkshire pudding on May 15, 2014, 06:23:32 pm
Hopefully he chooses the right football team full time too.  Good to see people helping him out.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 15, 2014, 06:48:23 pm
Top man Rob, I bet Stefan was grateful of a friendly visitor, any idea whats up with him?

Not yet mate,  hence the CT scan. The hospital suspect an infection has knocked him sideways,  but they want to be sure. I'm calling back later to see what the result is.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Filo on May 15, 2014, 06:58:25 pm
I bet communication is difficult for him, although his written English seems good, maybe he could communicate with the hospital staff by writing down things
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: DearneValleyRover on May 15, 2014, 07:29:31 pm
Give him all my best Rob
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 15, 2014, 09:02:41 pm
He's struggling to communicate in either English or Romanian. He called his mum earlier and he was struggling for Romanian words. The hospital have now moved him off the Acute Medical Ward not a general ward,  so they are happy that the IV antibiotics are working for him. I'm going to pop in to see him again tomorrow.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Dagenham Rover on May 15, 2014, 09:08:43 pm
Barnsleys enough to knock anybody sidewards..........get well soon Stefan
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Post by: DonnyBazR0ver on May 15, 2014, 09:46:35 pm
On admission they said "Sup wi thi cock?". No wonder he's traumatised and checking his bits every 10 mins!
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: bobjimwilly on May 15, 2014, 10:53:27 pm
Where abouts does he live Rob? Asos just down the road from me, presuming he doesn't live too far from work?
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: donnygav93 on May 16, 2014, 08:40:34 am

Where abouts does he live Rob? Asos just down the road from me, presuming he doesn't live too far from work?

He is stopping with some friends in womb well at the minute I'm gunna nip up to the hospital this afternoon as I'm only in cudworth thanks for the update yesterday Rob appreciate it.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 16, 2014, 01:42:01 pm
I'm at the hospital now,  but he has docs with him at the moment. I'll pass on all your good wishes.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Albert Trousers on May 16, 2014, 05:32:35 pm
Excuse my ignorance but who is this Stefan?
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: IC1967 on May 16, 2014, 06:29:54 pm
He's a fine example of the type of immigrant we need in this country.

Give him my best.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 21, 2014, 07:22:02 am
Stefan was discharged from hospital yesterday. The docs at Barnsley and in Romania have been speaking about his ongoing care and both feel that is better happening back in Romania where he has family support. So,  tomorrow he will return home. 

He sends his thanks to everyone who has given him good wishes.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Filo on May 21, 2014, 07:57:12 am
Pity it didn't work out for him, did they get to the bottom of what was up with him?
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Dagenham Rover on May 21, 2014, 08:05:55 am
Really sorry it didn't work out, can't somebody nip him down the Keepmoat before he goes back? even if its just the outside, just to say he got there
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: GazLaz on May 21, 2014, 08:47:21 am
What a month for him. Poor lad.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 21, 2014, 11:23:06 am
Pity it didn't work out for him, did they get to the bottom of what was up with him?

Yes,  viral meningitis.  He's been incredibly lucky he got to hospital as quickly as he did. I've just been to see him,  and he is much,  much better. He's hoping to come back again after a few months R&R. 
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Mike_F on May 21, 2014, 11:28:30 am
Crikey! Poor lad going through all that but very lucky to get treatment in time. As and when he's feeling good enough to come back, perhaps we could have a whip round or something to help with hs air fare.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 21, 2014, 11:37:36 am
Crikey! Poor lad going through all that but very lucky to get treatment in time. As and when he's feeling good enough to come back, perhaps we could have a whip round or something to help with hs air fare.

Nice idea, Mike.  He's actually not OK to fly to get home, due to the pressurisation in the cabin.  So he leaves on a bus from Manchester tomorrow which will take him 40+ hours to get home.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Filo on May 21, 2014, 11:51:48 am
Pity it didn't work out for him, did they get to the bottom of what was up with him?

Yes,  viral meningitis.  He's been incredibly lucky he got to hospital as quickly as he did. I've just been to see him,  and he is much,  much better. He's hoping to come back again after a few months R&R. 

Well, people knock our NHS, but getting prompt treatment and not having to wait around for some one to pay up before treatment commenced probably saved his life. Wonder if ASOS will keep his job open for him, maybe if he comes back in a few months he'll catch a match at the Keepmoat, all the best Stefan.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 21, 2014, 12:00:53 pm
He's resigning from ASOS right now.  I wont post on here his comments about the place and how staff are treated.  I doubt he will ever return there.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: River Don on May 21, 2014, 04:08:34 pm
I don't know what the standard of healthcare is like in Romania but I wouldn't be surprised if being in the UK when this struck was a bit of good luck actually.

A 40 hour bus journey Is a bit gruelling when you're feeling poorly, isn't it?
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: DRNaith on May 21, 2014, 04:37:00 pm
.....especially in the current temps!
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Filo on May 21, 2014, 05:05:46 pm
I don't know what the standard of healthcare is like in Romania but I wouldn't be surprised if being in the UK when this struck was a bit of good luck actually.

A 40 hour bus journey Is a bit gruelling when you're feeling poorly, isn't it?

I know I'm quoting wikipedia here, but it seems they have a pretty good healthcare system

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Healthcare_in_Romania
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Bristol Red Rover on May 21, 2014, 05:11:59 pm
I don't know what the standard of healthcare is like in Romania but I wouldn't be surprised if being in the UK when this struck was a bit of good luck actually.

A 40 hour bus journey Is a bit gruelling when you're feeling poorly, isn't it?

That's some journey when you're not feeling great and it doesn't get much worse than viral meningitis. Quite possible he picked it up in the UK too.

Best wishes Stefan, I'm sure you'll be fit soon enough. Mustn't grumble eh ;)
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 22, 2014, 12:37:24 pm
He goes tonight, the bus leaves at midnight and gets him home at Saturday teatime.

He says he feels OK.  A little dizzy and still a bit of a headache but other than that he is doing fine.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: i_ateallthepies on May 22, 2014, 07:01:36 pm
Crikey! Poor lad going through all that but very lucky to get treatment in time. As and when he's feeling good enough to come back, perhaps we could have a whip round or something to help with hs air fare.

Great thought Mike_F.  I'd chip in if he decided to try again.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: BobG on May 22, 2014, 10:03:32 pm
So would I. That is one bas**rd of a disease to get. And I can imagine very easily the sort of things Romanians seeking work have to put up with. Nice country? Not. Even 30 years back my then girlfriend, a Kenyan with rich parents, insisted repeatedly that of all the countries she had visited, and she had visited a lot, the one with most unpleasant and intrusive immigration was... you guessed it. And that was back when this country had a more laid back and way less xenophobic attitude.

BobG
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: hoolahoop on May 23, 2014, 10:16:10 am
I'm really sorry that I missed this thread earlier.
Stefan get your backside over here as soon as you can (avoiding Barnsley of course).

Thanks Rob as well for looking after our adopted Romanian supporter through this crisis.

Stefan please keep us up to date about your health OK ?
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: DevilMayCry on May 25, 2014, 12:24:50 pm
Hey Guys. I arrived last night in Bucharest and at this moment I'm okay.

The doctors from Barnsley talked with the doctors from Bucharest and they recommended me to return for 1-2 months here to make the completed analysis and for recovery.

I had viral meningitis, I contacted this at Asos because there was very high current. I started to had febra, feeled dizzy, vomiting and they I asked my friends to take me to the hospital.

I don't remember the first 24 hours in the hospital, I only remember 15 minutes in the night when I was very confused and I thought that I was in a loony bin and my life was finished. The second 24 hours I had very big problems with speaking english or romanian and I didn't remember the name of anyone (Rob visited me and he knows this) but now I'm much better.

I will be needed to stay here 1-2 months for analysis and then I want to return there but I want in Doncaster. I asked Rob to help me to find a job there (he will leave my cv and will speak for me at supermarkets/Tesco/Aldi/bars etc) because I worked and have studies in food industry. There in Doncaster I think that will be much easier and I will have a chance to have a social life with the guys from here, to go out for a beer, at matches etc.
If someone could help me to find to work there, I would be very grateful.

I liked the life there very much, I liked the people (I expected the people to be cold but no, they are very okay), the womans (especially nurses :lol:)
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Filo on May 25, 2014, 12:28:06 pm
Glad to hear you are feeling better, I bet the coach journey was a nightmare
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: idler on May 25, 2014, 12:37:49 pm
You seem to be making a good recovery.
I hope that it all goes well for you Stefan,
Dave :)
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: DevilMayCry on May 25, 2014, 01:32:44 pm
Yes, I was a nightmare the journey to my home.

Thank you for the good wishes in all this time.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RobTheRover on May 25, 2014, 03:46:42 pm
Glad you are home safe and well,  pal.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: BobG on May 25, 2014, 09:52:38 pm
Good luck Stefan!! I've been thinking of you ever since you got on that coach. Horrible way to travel all that way - especially when you're not feeling well. Even a plane journey would have been tough.

BobG
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: BillyStubbsTears on May 25, 2014, 11:12:11 pm
Best of luck spadger. Welcome back whenever you are fit again.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: hoolahoop on May 26, 2014, 01:01:18 am
Same from me , I hope to see you back soon and in time for a pint or two before the first match of the new season.
Get well soon and tell your friends to stay away from Barnsley too! Joking apart, I know that viral meningitis is a horrible disease to have :((
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: DevilMayCry on May 28, 2014, 09:17:47 pm
Hey guys. Today I was at the hospital, they took me a lot of blood for all analysis and Monday I will have the results and at this moment I'm okay. I hope I will return very soon there and if I will have some luck, to get a job there in Doncaster.

Thanks again for all the kind words from everyone.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: RedJ on May 28, 2014, 10:04:19 pm
Hope things work out better next time you're here.
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Al4475 on May 29, 2014, 10:42:40 am
Stay away from Barnsley mate - there's summatt inth'air oo-wer the-er!

Get well soon pal!
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: DevilMayCry on June 02, 2014, 12:04:07 pm
Hello guys. Today I was at the hospital and the analysis are very good, I escaped from that virus. The doctors told me that in 3-4 weeks I can return in UK
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: bobjimwilly on June 02, 2014, 12:06:48 pm
great news mate!
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Filo on June 02, 2014, 12:52:22 pm
Congratulations, I bet that's a relief
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: DevilMayCry on June 02, 2014, 01:25:48 pm
Yes, It's a relief. My back still hurts me because they tried so many time to take some fluid from the back in the hospital. In 2-3 weekes I will be like new  :)
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: Filo on June 02, 2014, 01:33:38 pm
How does the health care here in the UK compare with the health care in Romania?


P.S. Flights from Bucharest to Doncaster start on 13th June with Wizzair
Title: Re: DevilMayCry (Stefan)
Post by: DevilMayCry on June 02, 2014, 01:42:35 pm
Doctors are very good but the equipment is not so new like in UK. Here the UE donate money for hospital and they buy equipments.

Than is good. If I will find a job in Doncaster (I hope, that's my first choice where I want to return) I will come directly there.