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Title: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: normal rules on February 05, 2022, 11:16:57 pm
The EFL show rightly took time to highlight the issues at the Bolton game today.
It got me thinking what it is that makes people come out with mindless comments at football matches, or anywhere for that matter.

I’ve asked myself the question, have I genuinely met anyone in my life who is truly racist? I’m not sure. Possibly not. And I’ve spent 14 and a half years in the military and 22 yrs in the police.

When I was at school, people poked fun at the fat kid, the kid with glasses, the ginger kid, the kid that never got picked for the football team, the ugly kid, the kid with curly hair, the kid with the funny accent, the kid with funny eyes, the kid with darker skin, the kid that was Lilly white. The kid who’s parents had split up. Literally every single difference you could find between people.
Most kids  I know at school got poked fun at for one thing or another. Myself included. I was very short for my age group.

My point is this.
We notice differences in each other. And in the absence of any other knowledge about an individual, when you want to intimidate, poke fun or wind them up you choose the simplest obvious visible thing, What makes you different. I think this childish trait we learn at a very young age transcends into adulthood. Football is a tribal sport. We are, as supporters, by definition,  Tribal. We have differences. It’s a divisive activity. 
What football team you support.
What town you are born.
What size you are .
What hairstyle you have.

We’ve heard it all at the footy.
You fat bas**rd!
Gypo!
Where’s your Caravan?
Who’s the w**ker in the black?
Scab.
All of which goes  unnoticed to the MSM. And pundits alike.
And yet the mention of skin colour and all hell breaks loose.

Racism has no place in society or sport. No question.
But is racism present  in football or is it something else? Something less sinister?
As an example, consider what Ron Atkinson did some years ago, which cost him his job.
Is he racist? Or was his comment a mere objectification of an individual who just happened to have a differing colour skin to him? Had Ron Atkinson simply not grown up from his days in the playground.? He had nothing to offer in his repertoire other than to pick on his skin colour?

Before anyone points a finger of racism my way, might I add that I served along a number of black lads in the army who were and still are good friends of mine. I’m suggesting that some football supporters out there have not grown up at all and they poke the finger of abuse at people at the most basic of levels, like we did at school.. and they use skin colour differences in the same way as they would hair style or body shape. They are not racist per say,  they are just f**king stupid.

Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: BillyStubbsTears on February 05, 2022, 11:40:49 pm
Very good piece, that, NR. I absolutely agree that there is something about low intelligence humans (very much applicable to young kids) that needs to identify The Other so as to cement one's own position in the hierarchy. Most of it is, relatively, harmless and balances out. A calls B fat. B calls A speccy. And most of that discrimination fades with intelligence and experience as, mostly, we realise that what unites us is greater than what separates us.

My take is that there is something qualitatively different about certain forms of discrimination and that is why they are still so sore today.

For example, no advanced society has tried to exterminate all ginger people. But 20th century Germany did try to exterminate all Jews. Which is why anti-Semitism is beyond the pale and far worse than calling someone ugly or fat.

Similarly, no advanced society has used the fact of some people being bald to argue that they are sub-human and therefore justify a centuries long policy of condoning industrial scales of exploitation through slavery. Which is why anti-black racism is rightly considered today to deserve a special level of disgust.

All discrimination is basically wrong. Some forms do deserve particular levels of societal disgust.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: SydneyRover on February 06, 2022, 01:50:43 am
Two very good comments although and because I have said it before if I don't repeat it, I will be labelled a hypocrite, the argument that because one has black friends or colleagues does not necessarily mean a person cannot be a racist, but I accept your word you are not NR and stress I have never read anything to the contrary.

education, education ,education and much work on unconscious bias.

no racism, no casual racism,

No bias in education, employment, government, anything.

A truism is that kids are not born racist, but how difficult is it to educate kids who's parents are. How do schools deal with a child that asks for or needs guidance without causing problems for the child at home.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: phil old leake on February 06, 2022, 07:49:04 am
All the above are well written.

There are genuinely racist people out there and that is abhorrent.

I agree with most of the above.  The things that I always feel is that if racism and equality is going to be called out on such a level as it is now then so be it

Let’s not be selective.  If everything around historical slavery is to be vilified then lets do it and not only aim it at a select group of people.  Let’s call out all the different races who sold their captives and in some cases their own people into slavery. Let’s call out all the races who would capture their enemies and enslave them.

Let’s not only aim criticism at a select few on podcasts and tv who have used the N word or other comment.

If people want to criticise people for their historic behaviour then ok be let’s do it across the board and call it all

Those people should also be demanding that the music of the likes of 50 cents be withdrawn from Spotify and other platforms for the use of racist language.

I was watching a film clip the other day with Will Smith and some other black actor who were supposedly grilling a young black boy at their door who had come to take one of their daughters out. They used the N word so many times when being aggressive towards the lad I lost count.  In today’s standards that film should be called out by the same people calling out all the historic tweets and emails. Will Smith and the other actor should be having to apologise to the world to save their careers. The same as all the rappers who have made a shed load of money by portraying gangsterism with the use of different aggressive racist language

If something is racist or abhorrent it isn’t less racist or abhorrent because of who says it. Aiming the criticism at a select group is in its self is racist and hateful

Why are some people immediately forgiven for their past indiscretions and others not

So many things are being called out for everything.  Is it really racist to identify a sole black male in a group of white males as the black bloke. The same as a sole white male in a group of black males as the white bloke Or the ginger bloke or the lad with glasses or the bald person  It’s normal to identify by the obvious identifier. It’s human nature and natural

If people are wanting to live in this unforgiving and critical world then they should do so without favour or prejudice

Unconscious bias is in all of us white black male female young or old and that should be accepted as a fact


Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: ColinDouglasHandshake on February 06, 2022, 11:51:23 am
Some interesting points.

The Ron Atkinson use of the word 'coloured' is something that i believe is a generational thing.

My mum and dad (mum in her 70's - dad died aged 56 in 2000) always referred to black or asian people as coloured people. They weren't racist. It was just the terminology that they used back then that was acceptable back then and they haven't kept up with changing terminology.

Nowadays, saying 'coloured' people is deemed racist and yet elderly people who aren't racist still use that word because they are not aware that they are not allowed to say that anymore as it is deemed racist.

Another story was one which Phil mentioned about singling out a black person for identification purposes, which oddly enough is something i did a few weeks back with my mate at a Rovers match. I remember this because we spoke about it at the time and actually discussed if it was racist or not.

Can't remember which team it was who we played but they had a black player up front and i asked my mate who the black player up front for them was as i couldn't see the name on his shirt.

Am i a racist? I know i am not but for ease of identification, in a team of white players it was simpler to ask who the black player was. A bit like asking who the player is with the mullet or the player with the pink football boots.

Perhaps asking such a question makes me a racist in some people's eyes but all that matters is that i know that i am not.

What would happen if there was a woman in with a group of blokes and i asked who the woman was. By this logic this would then be sexist. Or if someone was in a wheelchair amongst a group of able bodied people and i asked who the person in the wheelchair was. Would this be disablist?

I accept it is identifying somebody on account of a clear visible physical difference and maybe this is not ideal but it isn't meant in a derogatory or demeaning way.

In my view, even if you aren't racist, you still have to be extremely careful which words you use in regards to referring to people with differences as anything i feel can be quickly jumped upon and you get labelled a racist or a sexist or discriminating against the disabled or whatever.

Sometimes it is not that easy, especially when what is deemed acceptable terminology seems to be ever changing.

I heard my GP referring to BAME communities the other week during our appointment and yet there are many people who find the term BAME offensive. So it's a minefield.

Obviously there is no excuse for hurling abuse with racial slurs at anyone and these people rightly so need eliminating from football but i genuinely do believe that most people just treat people equally regardless.

Imagine living in Russia where some football clubs don't sign black players because they ARE racist.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: BillyStubbsTears on February 06, 2022, 01:19:49 pm
Atkinson didn't use the word coloured.

He responded to a mistake by Marcel Desailly saying, in comments when he thought his mic was off after commentary, "That's what we in the game call a 'f**king lazy, thick nigger'."
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: keyser_soze on February 06, 2022, 01:27:20 pm
Identifying a footballer with black skin as a black footballer is not racist. Prejudging that person on account of their skin colour is racist.

Ron Atkinson is the example used, and I struggle to remember exactly what was said but I believe he suggested Marcel Desailly had let his team down and referred to him as a ‘big, dumb N******’. Now no-one can argue he was a big bloke, sure he might even be a bit thick, but combining that insult with the N word automatically linked his race with his level of intelligence.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: keyser_soze on February 06, 2022, 01:32:24 pm
There are several words that are ‘problematic’, linked with slavery etc. My dear sweet old Nanna wasn’t racist for calling black people ‘coloured’, but she certainly was racist for suggesting I shouldn’t bring home a black girl as she ‘didn’t want lots of little piccaninies running round’ for grandchildren.

Culturally very different times granted, but it shows the difference a couple of generations can make.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: Filo on February 06, 2022, 01:55:53 pm
Why is the ‘N’ word never challenged when a black person uses it?
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: keyser_soze on February 06, 2022, 02:17:53 pm
I think that’s pretty problematic too, but I appreciate the context is certainly different when a black person uses it to another black person in an attempt to reclaim a phrase, without the context of centuries of oppression behind it. I’ve always liked Quentin Tarantino but I’ve always been uncomfortable with how readily he uses the phrase in his films.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: ColinDouglasHandshake on February 06, 2022, 02:18:45 pm
Atkinson didn't use the word coloured.

He responded to a mistake by Marcel Desailly saying, in comments when he thought his mic was off after commentary, "That's what we in the game call a 'f**king lazy, thick nigger'."

Ah apologies. Got the wrong person then. I'm sure someone involved with footy or the FA said something like 'coloured' and had to resign? Didn't Alan Hansen also say something similar once?
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: keyser_soze on February 06, 2022, 02:26:55 pm
Yeah I think you’re thinking of the chairman of the FA. I seem to remember there was a lot more in the statement than the word ‘coloured’.

Reading up he suggested Asians were more interested in computers than football and that being gay was a ‘life choice’, he just happened to refer to ‘coloured footballers’ as well.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: phil old leake on February 06, 2022, 04:11:31 pm
Keyser why is there a difference in context when a black person uses the N word

This is one of the points I’m making. If the term is derogatory and offensive then it’s derogatory and offensive whoever uses it


Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: keyser_soze on February 06, 2022, 04:29:08 pm
I don’t think it’s up to someone who isn’t the target of racism to decide what is and isn’t racist, it’s all in the eye of the beholder. And absolutely a white person using a word about a black person that has historically been used by white people to oppress black people is different context to a black person using it to another black person. The historical baggage is not the same.

Might be a bit of a clunky analogy but think of my mate calling me a fat bas**rd (when I’m not actually fat) for having a second trip up to the buffet, a totally different context to him calling a genuine fat stranger the same.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: phil old leake on February 06, 2022, 04:47:14 pm
I take your point Keyser but disagree with the analogy. 

This is a word that can’t be spoken because it’s so offensive. 

If anything is that offensive it should be upsetting whoever says it

Just my view I find selective outrage hypocritical 
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: normal rules on February 06, 2022, 05:18:23 pm
Why is the ‘N’ word never challenged when a black person uses it?

Because when Afro Caribbean’s call it each other it’s classed as a term of endearment. Like we would use the word “mate”.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: normal rules on February 06, 2022, 05:22:09 pm
When I was a kid, mum used to send me off on my bike to get her some fags from the local corner shop.
I can still hear her voice now.

“ go t’ paki shop for me love,  and get yer mam some fags”

Now my mum did not have a racist bone in her body.
But this sort of chat would get you in trouble these days.probably even lose you you’re job. There was nothing prejudice in her comment. Nothing sinister. She was good friends with the owners of that shop who knew our family well.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: keyser_soze on February 06, 2022, 05:32:54 pm
When I was a kid, mum used to send me off on my bike to get her some fags from the local corner shop.
I can still hear her voice now.

“ go t’ paki shop for me love,  and get yer mam some fags”

Now my mum did not have a racist bone in her body.
But this sort of chat would get you in trouble these days.probably even lose you you’re job. There was nothing prejudice in her comment. Nothing sinister. She was good friends with the owners of that shop who knew our family well.

Agreed, times change, and people are more educated now. Fair chance the shop owner was Indian which potentially would make it even more offensive to him. However, if she said 'get me some fags but don't go to that paki shop cos I hate all pakis' - that's racism.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: DonnyOsmond on February 06, 2022, 05:39:51 pm
When I was a kid, mum used to send me off on my bike to get her some fags from the local corner shop.
I can still hear her voice now.

“ go t’ paki shop for me love,  and get yer mam some fags”

Now my mum did not have a racist bone in her body.
But this sort of chat would get you in trouble these days.probably even lose you you’re job. There was nothing prejudice in her comment. Nothing sinister. She was good friends with the owners of that shop who knew our family well.

She isn't racist but at that point in time it was probably seen in society as acceptable, especially when the majority of the population are white British, someone who is Pakistani or Indian or Bangladeshi would find out they're gonna be called paki and that's how it is. They probably accepted that at the time but over time it's seen as not acceptable and not something the majority of people who are from that area want to be called. It's the same kind of idea as the statues of slavers, at one point in time it was more acceptable but nowadays it's understood it happened but shouldn't be worn proudly as a badge of honour.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: BillyStubbsTears on February 06, 2022, 05:45:19 pm
I take your point Keyser but disagree with the analogy. 

This is a word that can’t be spoken because it’s so offensive. 

If anything is that offensive it should be upsetting whoever says it

Just my view I find selective outrage hypocritical 


No word is offensive. It's just a string of letters. How can that be offensive?

It's the intent behind the usage that produces offence when Ron Atkinson says it. And doesn't produce offence when a black person says it to a friend.

It's really not difficult.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: BillyStubbsTears on February 06, 2022, 05:50:20 pm
Look at it this way.

Can you see the difference in meaning between exactly the same letters arranged in the same order in these two circumstances?

1) You tell a corny joke among friends. Your best mate puts his arm round your shoulder laughing and says "You f**king daft Kitson."

2) You pull out of a side road without looking and hit a car. The driver jumps out and runs at you with a wheel brace in his hand shouting "You f**king daft Kitson."

It's always about context.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: wilts rover on February 06, 2022, 05:59:46 pm
When a white person uses the word n*****r to a black person they are using it as an insult and to demean them. When a bleck person uses the term to another black person they are using it as a term of comradeship.

When a white person uses the word p**i to an asian person they are using it as an insult and to demean them. When an asian person uses the term to another asian person they are using it as a term of comradeship.

It's not the word, its the historic concept (slavery, NF/BNP) and intent behind it use.

To anyone serious wishing to understand this I recommend the book 'Empireland' by Sathnam Sanghera.

To anyone looking to excuse their prejudice/racism - I suggest you read it twice.
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Post by: drfchound on February 06, 2022, 06:12:29 pm
I have a mate from back in the football years who was still close to a lad from an Indian background who played in the same team as him back in the 80’s.
The Indian lad sadly passed away about three weeks ago but my mate still called him Sambo as he did when they played together.
They both accepted it as a term of endearment and no malice was intended.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: keyser_soze on February 06, 2022, 06:30:11 pm
I have a mate from back in the football years who was still close to a lad from an Indian background who played in the same team as him back in the 80’s.
The Indian lad sadly passed away about three weeks ago but my mate still called him Sambo as he did when they played together.
They both accepted it as a term of endearment and no malice was intended.

Fair enough - but it should be the Indian lad's decision whether he finds it offensive or not, and just because he accepted it doesn't mean that he didn't.

The only time I have been racially abused in my life was when I was called a 'white bitch' by an indigenous Australian in Cairns - I'm lucky that is the only time I ever remember it happening, and as such it was jarring but I didn't find it particularly offensive and was able to let it go, but then I hadn't got the decades of being called it and historical oppression to go with it.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: normal rules on February 06, 2022, 06:35:39 pm
Does anyone on here have an issue with the word Jock, in the context of being Scottish.

Or bogtrotter, paddy or mick (Irish)
Or taff or trog (Welsh)

Because they are all racial slurs. Yet their use is commonplace. No MSM meltdown over their use either.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: keyser_soze on February 06, 2022, 06:39:38 pm
I have Welsh and Scottish in the family, and certainly wouldn't chose to use any of those words to describe them.

I do have sympathy and try and educate myself on this stuff - and its a constant battle to keep up and remain educated. In my last post i had typed Aborigine for indigenous Australian before remembering that is now not a widely acceptable term for the Colonial implications.
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Post by: DonnyOsmond on February 06, 2022, 06:41:35 pm
Does anyone on here have an issue with the word Jock, in the context of being Scottish.

Or bogtrotter, paddy or mick (Irish)
Or taff or trog (Welsh)

Because they are all racial slurs. Yet their use is commonplace. No MSM meltdown over their use either.

Ask people from those places. I'm guessing this forum is 95% English, it's not our place to judge if they find them offensive.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: drfchound on February 06, 2022, 06:42:18 pm
I have a mate from back in the football years who was still close to a lad from an Indian background who played in the same team as him back in the 80’s.
The Indian lad sadly passed away about three weeks ago but my mate still called him Sambo as he did when they played together.
They both accepted it as a term of endearment and no malice was intended.

Fair enough - but it should be the Indian lad's decision whether he finds it offensive or not, and just because he accepted it doesn't mean that he didn't.

The only time I have been racially abused in my life was when I was called a 'white bitch' by an indigenous Australian in Cairns - I'm lucky that is the only time I ever remember it happening, and as such it was jarring but I didn't find it particularly offensive and was able to let it go, but then I hadn't got the decades of being called it and historical oppression to go with it.

The Indian lad didn’t find it offensive.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: normal rules on February 06, 2022, 06:44:30 pm
Does anyone on here have an issue with the word Jock, in the context of being Scottish.

Or bogtrotter, paddy or mick (Irish)
Or taff or trog (Welsh)

Because they are all racial slurs. Yet their use is commonplace. No MSM meltdown over their use either.

Ask people from those places. I'm guessing this forum is 95% English, it's not our place to judge if they find them offensive.

I have Scottish ancestors, great great grandad onwards. I have no issue with it.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: drfchound on February 06, 2022, 06:45:05 pm
Does anyone on here have an issue with the word Jock, in the context of being Scottish.

Or bogtrotter, paddy or mick (Irish)
Or taff or trog (Welsh)

Because they are all racial slurs. Yet their use is commonplace. No MSM meltdown over their use either.

Ask people from those places. I'm guessing this forum is 95% English, it's not our place to judge if they find them offensive.

I bet Wolfie will remember a renowned Sunday League Goalscorer back in the sixties from Thorne, Taffy Evans.
Taffy loved his nickname.
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Post by: ColinDouglasHandshake on February 06, 2022, 06:58:35 pm
Well Mansfield Town are investigating a fan who posted racist messages on t**tter to Chesterfield player Tshimanga.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: danumdon on February 06, 2022, 08:50:32 pm
I find that some people tend to make a distinction between racism when the race involved are not black, it somehow does not get the same condemnation that it deserves. As a kid growing up in Doncaster i received plenty coming from the only Italian family in the area. Taught me to stand my ground many a time and plenty of kids who were quite happy to partake when in a group interestingly had a slightly more worldly outlook when finding themselves on their own in my presence !!

I've noticed that some of the loudest advocates for racial equality on here in the past have kept their own council or even joined in when some berk has decided to have a cheap laugh at my kinsfolk's expense. What does that say about them as supposedly grounded and intelligent individuals?

Goes without saying that ALL racism is abhorrent regardless of colour or creed.


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Post by: ColinDouglasHandshake on February 06, 2022, 08:56:10 pm
Good post Danumdon.

I'm from an Austrian background and have been called things like kraut, sausage muncher, hitler, numerous references to the Sound of Music etc etc. Even latterly jokes about the likes of Jozef Fritzl. So i have had that too but what can you do if you are not black and are english born and raised? Take it as banter or get offended by it. Essentially it is bullying due to a difference but like with Scots, Irish and Welsh it often goes under the radar as banter.
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Post by: SydneyRover on February 06, 2022, 09:04:42 pm
Polish migrants to the UK being a case in point, I guess
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Post by: scawsby steve on February 06, 2022, 09:50:55 pm
Eastern Europeans get a lot of stick from some people, especially Romanians. There are two Romanian families living on our street; they're the nicest, hardworking, God loving people I've ever met.

I have a lot of banter with one of the guys about Gaby Tamas, who used to play for his team, Dynamo Bucharest.
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Post by: SydneyRover on February 06, 2022, 10:04:03 pm
I would have thought Romanians were eastern Europeans Steve?
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Post by: Janso on February 06, 2022, 11:09:15 pm
I would have thought Romanians were eastern Europeans Steve?

The Romanians are getting stick for being Eastern European, not giving it out to them.
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Post by: SydneyRover on February 06, 2022, 11:31:47 pm
I would have thought Romanians were eastern Europeans Steve?

The Romanians are getting stick for being Eastern European, not giving it out to them.

I think you missed my point janso
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: phil old leake on February 07, 2022, 07:07:16 am
https://fanbanter.co.uk/tottenham-fans-face-police-action-if-abusive-and-outdated-chant-gets-sung-during-matches/
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: normal rules on February 07, 2022, 08:41:34 am
They will ban the word Tyke next. Which has been found to be pejorative in the context of Yorkshire Folk.
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Post by: SydneyRover on February 07, 2022, 09:02:23 am
I wouldn't think that spurs fans are using Yid as a term of endearment.
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Post by: DonnyOsmond on February 07, 2022, 10:18:30 am
They will ban the word Tyke next. Which has been found to be pejorative in the context of Yorkshire Folk.


What are you on about? Was your intention for this thread to moan about not being able to say words like "nigger" and "paki"? You're now only posting about "them" stopping you from saying words they haven't stopped you from saying.
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Post by: drfchound on February 07, 2022, 12:47:37 pm
I would have thought Romanians were eastern Europeans Steve?

The Romanians are getting stick for being Eastern European, not giving it out to them.

I think you missed my point janso

What was your point anyway.
I don’t think that SS was suggesting that Romanians are not Eastern Europeans.
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Post by: normal rules on February 07, 2022, 05:09:44 pm
I wouldn't think that spurs fans are using Yid as a term of endearment.

They have always called themselves it. A sort of self proclamation. For years.
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Post by: scawsby steve on February 07, 2022, 06:07:10 pm
I would have thought Romanians were eastern Europeans Steve?

Nice to see you struggling with semantics again, Sydney.
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Post by: SydneyRover on February 07, 2022, 07:54:22 pm
I would have thought Romanians were eastern Europeans Steve?

Nice to see you struggling with semantics again, Sydney.

rather than just struggling aye steve?
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Post by: SydneyRover on February 07, 2022, 07:55:45 pm
I wouldn't think that spurs fans are using Yid as a term of endearment.

They have always called themselves it. A sort of self proclamation. For years.

The question is do they consider it offensive or are you saying that because you think it's ok?
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Post by: normal rules on February 08, 2022, 12:51:08 pm
Take a look on the fighting cock, a Spurs forum. There’s a big thread about it. Called the y word.
See for yourself. I could not find one single Spurs fan who had an issue with it. In fact quite a few suggested if it becomes a criminal matter , they Would be finished with football. Comments like this .


If jewish people (myself included) experienced intentional racial hatred at our ground and were ever made to feel unwelcome then the chanting would be offensive.
We don't, so it isn't.
They tried to stop us, look what it did.

f**king irritates the hell out of me that people seem so incapable of understanding context. Why would 50,000 people regularly shout abuse to the team they support? Sorry if it means something different to someone else, but it's not directed at them, nor with the meaning they are taking - it's directed positively towards our football club - any other meaning or direction taking by others is simply their misunderstanding.


So to answer your question, they don’t think it’s offensive and neither do I.
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Post by: BillyStubbsTears on February 08, 2022, 01:54:44 pm
Good post NR.

As ever, it is all about context.

As ever, no-one gets this better than Stewart Lee.

https://youtu.be/2OLXzO1oK2w
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: scawsby steve on February 08, 2022, 04:49:38 pm
I would have thought Romanians were eastern Europeans Steve?

Nice to see you struggling with semantics again, Sydney.

rather than just struggling aye steve?

Struggling with what? Apart from old age.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: SydneyRover on February 08, 2022, 08:41:53 pm
Take a look on the fighting cock, a Spurs forum. There’s a big thread about it. Called the y word.
See for yourself. I could not find one single Spurs fan who had an issue with it. In fact quite a few suggested if it becomes a criminal matter , they Would be finished with football. Comments like this .


If jewish people (myself included) experienced intentional racial hatred at our ground and were ever made to feel unwelcome then the chanting would be offensive.
We don't, so it isn't.
They tried to stop us, look what it did.

f**king irritates the hell out of me that people seem so incapable of understanding context. Why would 50,000 people regularly shout abuse to the team they support? Sorry if it means something different to someone else, but it's not directed at them, nor with the meaning they are taking - it's directed positively towards our football club - any other meaning or direction taking by others is simply their misunderstanding.


So to answer your question, they don’t think it’s offensive and neither do I.

Have you told your police buddies that do, maybe they don't follow off topic, and the chairman of the club.

Unions, not all as I don't know, are taking a zero tolerance stance, no jokes, nothing, because there are always those that want to hide behind the, oh I was only joking, I have friends that are X from Y, and of course there are those that will push the envelope.

And how do you tell young kids not to use the various terms they hear being used, they don't know the history of the use of any particular term. The slimeball occupying #10  copies right wing nut jobs does he not?
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: normal rules on February 08, 2022, 10:19:26 pm
Do kids  in Australia understand what the word Pom or Pommie means?
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: SydneyRover on February 09, 2022, 02:22:20 am
why?, I think you would have to add some detail to the question, our grandkids wouldn't have heard the term in fact it's rarely used, the only place I have seen it used in the past 10 years maybe is on the forum.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: SydneyRover on February 09, 2022, 02:26:41 am
tolerating abuse doesn't appear to have worked, we have a PM that can't control his mouth and comedian that wants to call it education, if it was not tolerated then this wouldn't happen or there would be consequences. Why don't we try zero tolerance for as long as abuse has been accepted and see how we go, that would be a fair call, no?
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: drfchound on February 09, 2022, 09:20:13 am
tolerating abuse doesn't appear to have worked, we have a PM that can't control his mouth and comedian that wants to call it education, if it was not tolerated then this wouldn't happen or there would be consequences. Why don't we try zero tolerance for as long as abuse has been accepted and see how we go, that would be a fair call, no?

Why do we need to know what sort of PM you have in Australia?
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: phil old leake on February 09, 2022, 12:26:26 pm
It seems to me that a lot of the subject matter on this forum and in general areas of society relates to matters outside of the UK
Personal opinion from personal experience only and I’m  expecting to have people shoot me down but I genuinely believe we live in a very tolerant accepting society and the average man/woman in the street cares very little about peoples backgrounds sexual orientation gender or race. People want to get on
Sometimes it is alright to not like someone just because you don’t like them. It doesn’t mean you’ve got some kind of biased hate agenda
There are obviously problems with some but I believe that in general terms people aren’t biased towards people in a malicious way. There have obviously been historical issues in the past.
The media fuel a-lot of the problems with biased agenda driven reporting and there are people on this forum and in other areas that are far to quick to condone the many for the actions of the very few fueling disharmony disgruntlement and hatred
Let’s not forget that there are people of all walks of life who have made and still make mistakes and are not 100% perfect.
One persons mistake / issues doesn’t mean we all have the same issues
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: Axholme Lion on February 09, 2022, 12:32:56 pm
It seems to me that a lot of the subject matter on this forum and in general areas of society relates to matters outside of the UK
Personal opinion from personal experience only and I’m  expecting to have people shoot me down but I genuinely believe we live in a very tolerant accepting society and the average man/woman in the street cares very little about peoples backgrounds sexual orientation gender or race. People want to get on
Sometimes it is alright to not like someone just because you don’t like them. It doesn’t mean you’ve got some kind of biased hate agenda
There are obviously problems with some but I believe that in general terms people aren’t biased towards people in a malicious way. There have obviously been historical issues in the past.
The media fuel a-lot of the problems with biased agenda driven reporting and there are people on this forum and in other areas that are far to quick to condone the many for the actions of the very few fueling disharmony disgruntlement and hatred
Let’s not forget that there are people of all walks of life who have made and still make mistakes and are not 100% perfect.
One persons mistake / issues doesn’t mean we all have the same issues

Well said. Media stirring up shit where problems don't exist.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: BillyStubbsTears on February 09, 2022, 12:58:27 pm
Straight white men telling black or gay people that discrimination doesn't exist.

You see the issue?
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: ColinDouglasHandshake on February 09, 2022, 01:11:55 pm
Or disabled or neurodiverse people. They seem to get ignored. If you aren't black, from an ethnic minority or LGBTQ then you get ignored.
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: phil old leake on February 09, 2022, 03:18:48 pm
Billy

Or

None ethnic minority none gay none diverse people telling none ethnic minority none gay and none diverse people what it feels like to be in an ethnic minority group or to be gay or to be in some way diverse

You see the issue???
Title: Re: Efl show tonight . Discrimination.
Post by: SydneyRover on February 09, 2022, 08:47:05 pm
Or ordinary everyday people standing up for those that are abused, standing up for equality in all areas.