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Where's the line between harmless banter and bullying then? Is there one?
Aye and that's how bullies operate. Pick on a weak spot and keep picking and picking away. Victims deal with it in different ways. Some shrug it off, others bottle it up and then go into a violent rage. Others just get fed up and kill themselves. But as long as it's a laugh for those who enjoy the wind-up it's all ok isn't it?
Le Saux brought on trouble by how he dealt with it. People could tell it wound him up. Calling someone gay who isn't is the same as people calling Billy Sharp a fat bas**rd when he isn't. Fowler used to get chants about being a coke head that's why he snorted the touch line. If you put yourself in a high profile position you put yourself out there for stick. If someone is hammering him for being something he's not why does it bother him? Anyone who's worked in a blokes environment or played in a blokes team environment must have been subject to plenty of ribbing. I worked with a lad once and he always turned up with flip flops on and hair band in, and he got dogs abuse but that's what happens. He took it and gave as much back as he got. Did Le Saux's team mates actually think he had sex with men? I'd say probably not. Did they enjoy watching him get wound up and think he was an easy target for a laugh?? Probably yes.