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5 on tour- if you are bothered enough to write a long post then why didn’t you speak to him yourself? He’s obviously upset you with the way he’s acted.
Did you bother reporting to a steward or club official?People are quick to come on here saying they’d do this that and the other, but in the real world do absolutely nothing at all.
Quote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 08:21:19 amDid you bother reporting to a steward or club official?People are quick to come on here saying they’d do this that and the other, but in the real world do absolutely nothing at all.So unless your willing to get into a confrontation and/or a fight, don't speak up on here? GTFO
Quote from: bobjimwilly on October 30, 2019, 11:51:43 amQuote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 08:21:19 amDid you bother reporting to a steward or club official?People are quick to come on here saying they’d do this that and the other, but in the real world do absolutely nothing at all.So unless your willing to get into a confrontation and/or a fight, don't speak up on here? GTFOSo reporting to a steward, or better yet, texting the number that is advertised all over the stadium for anti social behaviour is going to get you into a fight?Problem with mouthing off on here is that unless the other person posts, you're only ever going to get one version of events.
Quote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 01:13:24 pmQuote from: bobjimwilly on October 30, 2019, 11:51:43 amQuote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 08:21:19 amDid you bother reporting to a steward or club official?People are quick to come on here saying they’d do this that and the other, but in the real world do absolutely nothing at all.So unless your willing to get into a confrontation and/or a fight, don't speak up on here? GTFOSo reporting to a steward, or better yet, texting the number that is advertised all over the stadium for anti social behaviour is going to get you into a fight?Problem with mouthing off on here is that unless the other person posts, you're only ever going to get one version of events. Or the OP was trying to help identify the culprit.?What’s your problem with this anyway.?
Quote from: IDM on October 30, 2019, 01:25:33 pmQuote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 01:13:24 pmQuote from: bobjimwilly on October 30, 2019, 11:51:43 amQuote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 08:21:19 amDid you bother reporting to a steward or club official?People are quick to come on here saying they’d do this that and the other, but in the real world do absolutely nothing at all.So unless your willing to get into a confrontation and/or a fight, don't speak up on here? GTFOSo reporting to a steward, or better yet, texting the number that is advertised all over the stadium for anti social behaviour is going to get you into a fight?Problem with mouthing off on here is that unless the other person posts, you're only ever going to get one version of events. Or the OP was trying to help identify the culprit.?What’s your problem with this anyway.?Well said mate. Not sure what else I’m meant to do once the SLO is involved? Tell Dean to sit down so I can smack the bloke? Haha.Maybe Redarmy is having a bad day. Whatever it is I’ve apparently offended him.I was hoping to identify the culprit using our own fan base but even that’s turned into an issue on here. Some people really do need to just relax.
I think the OP was quite sensible in trying to identify an element we don’t want at the club
Quote from: roversdude on October 30, 2019, 05:17:30 pmI think the OP was quite sensible in trying to identify an element we don’t want at the clubAgain what element? Why was he shouting abuse to these kids? I doubt he’s sat there all the game and just randomly started doing towards the end.A few years ago, I witnessed some young lads hurling abuse at an older bloke for a large majority of the match. They were mocking his appearance and less than intelligent nature. In the end he flipped and started hurling abuse at them. Who get ejected? He did. I tried telling the stewards what had happened and they weren’t interested.maybe we should hear this old guys story before making assumptions?
Quote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 05:24:22 pmQuote from: roversdude on October 30, 2019, 05:17:30 pmI think the OP was quite sensible in trying to identify an element we don’t want at the clubAgain what element? Why was he shouting abuse to these kids? I doubt he’s sat there all the game and just randomly started doing towards the end.A few years ago, I witnessed some young lads hurling abuse at an older bloke for a large majority of the match. They were mocking his appearance and less than intelligent nature. In the end he flipped and started hurling abuse at them. Who get ejected? He did. I tried telling the stewards what had happened and they weren’t interested.maybe we should hear this old guys story before making assumptions?And when he’s identified and reported we can do that. We can hear his side of events. I made no assumptions at all. What I witnessed was a fully grown man insulting and swearing at an 8 year old at a football match. I don’t even particularly care if the 8 year old did say something offensive to the man. That doesn’t give any adult the right to shout and swear at a child. Does it? The 8 year old was with his, presumably, grandad. No other children with him. The 8 year was holding back tears. So based on what I’ve witnessed and reported to you here can you explain any possible situation where bullying an 8 year old is acceptable? Even if the 8 year said or did something the man didn’t like is it acceptable? You don’t seem even remotely concerned about the welfare of the child from all of your posts. Most humans would find it unacceptable to bully an 8 year old...
Quote from: 5 on Tour on October 30, 2019, 05:43:01 pmQuote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 05:24:22 pmQuote from: roversdude on October 30, 2019, 05:17:30 pmI think the OP was quite sensible in trying to identify an element we don’t want at the clubAgain what element? Why was he shouting abuse to these kids? I doubt he’s sat there all the game and just randomly started doing towards the end.A few years ago, I witnessed some young lads hurling abuse at an older bloke for a large majority of the match. They were mocking his appearance and less than intelligent nature. In the end he flipped and started hurling abuse at them. Who get ejected? He did. I tried telling the stewards what had happened and they weren’t interested.maybe we should hear this old guys story before making assumptions?And when he’s identified and reported we can do that. We can hear his side of events. I made no assumptions at all. What I witnessed was a fully grown man insulting and swearing at an 8 year old at a football match. I don’t even particularly care if the 8 year old did say something offensive to the man. That doesn’t give any adult the right to shout and swear at a child. Does it? The 8 year old was with his, presumably, grandad. No other children with him. The 8 year was holding back tears. So based on what I’ve witnessed and reported to you here can you explain any possible situation where bullying an 8 year old is acceptable? Even if the 8 year said or did something the man didn’t like is it acceptable? You don’t seem even remotely concerned about the welfare of the child from all of your posts. Most humans would find it unacceptable to bully an 8 year old...Maybe the older man has social anxiety issues?Maybe he has another condition.Maybe anything, as I’ve said I’ve seen similar things happen before, and unless all the facts are known, it isn’t right to name and shame someone who probably doesn’t have the function to defend themselves on a public forum.
Quote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 05:47:20 pmQuote from: 5 on Tour on October 30, 2019, 05:43:01 pmQuote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 05:24:22 pmQuote from: roversdude on October 30, 2019, 05:17:30 pmI think the OP was quite sensible in trying to identify an element we don’t want at the clubAgain what element? Why was he shouting abuse to these kids? I doubt he’s sat there all the game and just randomly started doing towards the end.A few years ago, I witnessed some young lads hurling abuse at an older bloke for a large majority of the match. They were mocking his appearance and less than intelligent nature. In the end he flipped and started hurling abuse at them. Who get ejected? He did. I tried telling the stewards what had happened and they weren’t interested.maybe we should hear this old guys story before making assumptions?And when he’s identified and reported we can do that. We can hear his side of events. I made no assumptions at all. What I witnessed was a fully grown man insulting and swearing at an 8 year old at a football match. I don’t even particularly care if the 8 year old did say something offensive to the man. That doesn’t give any adult the right to shout and swear at a child. Does it? The 8 year old was with his, presumably, grandad. No other children with him. The 8 year was holding back tears. So based on what I’ve witnessed and reported to you here can you explain any possible situation where bullying an 8 year old is acceptable? Even if the 8 year said or did something the man didn’t like is it acceptable? You don’t seem even remotely concerned about the welfare of the child from all of your posts. Most humans would find it unacceptable to bully an 8 year old...Maybe the older man has social anxiety issues?Maybe he has another condition.Maybe anything, as I’ve said I’ve seen similar things happen before, and unless all the facts are known, it isn’t right to name and shame someone who probably doesn’t have the function to defend themselves on a public forum.Yet with all the known facts presented you continue to defend the grown up and have seemingly no concern for the child.Please read through all the above posts and point out anywhere it asks for him to be “named and shamed”. Didn’t the thread start with me asking if anyone knows him to keep him away from the ground? Not for his name but to keep him away. Your repeated attempts to lay excuses for this abhorrent behaviour says an awful lot about you. You should be ashamed trying to defend someone bullying children as literally no excuse exists for an adult to behave in that manner! Regardless of what the child has done.
Quote from: 5 on Tour on October 30, 2019, 06:14:23 pmQuote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 05:47:20 pmQuote from: 5 on Tour on October 30, 2019, 05:43:01 pmQuote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 05:24:22 pmQuote from: roversdude on October 30, 2019, 05:17:30 pmI think the OP was quite sensible in trying to identify an element we don’t want at the clubAgain what element? Why was he shouting abuse to these kids? I doubt he’s sat there all the game and just randomly started doing towards the end.A few years ago, I witnessed some young lads hurling abuse at an older bloke for a large majority of the match. They were mocking his appearance and less than intelligent nature. In the end he flipped and started hurling abuse at them. Who get ejected? He did. I tried telling the stewards what had happened and they weren’t interested.maybe we should hear this old guys story before making assumptions?And when he’s identified and reported we can do that. We can hear his side of events. I made no assumptions at all. What I witnessed was a fully grown man insulting and swearing at an 8 year old at a football match. I don’t even particularly care if the 8 year old did say something offensive to the man. That doesn’t give any adult the right to shout and swear at a child. Does it? The 8 year old was with his, presumably, grandad. No other children with him. The 8 year was holding back tears. So based on what I’ve witnessed and reported to you here can you explain any possible situation where bullying an 8 year old is acceptable? Even if the 8 year said or did something the man didn’t like is it acceptable? You don’t seem even remotely concerned about the welfare of the child from all of your posts. Most humans would find it unacceptable to bully an 8 year old...Maybe the older man has social anxiety issues?Maybe he has another condition.Maybe anything, as I’ve said I’ve seen similar things happen before, and unless all the facts are known, it isn’t right to name and shame someone who probably doesn’t have the function to defend themselves on a public forum.Yet with all the known facts presented you continue to defend the grown up and have seemingly no concern for the child.Please read through all the above posts and point out anywhere it asks for him to be “named and shamed”. Didn’t the thread start with me asking if anyone knows him to keep him away from the ground? Not for his name but to keep him away. Your repeated attempts to lay excuses for this abhorrent behaviour says an awful lot about you. You should be ashamed trying to defend someone bullying children as literally no excuse exists for an adult to behave in that manner! Regardless of what the child has done.Again, without knowing all the facts,why should he be made to stay away?
Quote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 05:47:20 pmQuote from: 5 on Tour on October 30, 2019, 05:43:01 pmQuote from: redarmy82 on October 30, 2019, 05:24:22 pmQuote from: roversdude on October 30, 2019, 05:17:30 pmI think the OP was quite sensible in trying to identify an element we don’t want at the clubAgain what element? Why was he shouting abuse to these kids? I doubt he’s sat there all the game and just randomly started doing towards the end.A few years ago, I witnessed some young lads hurling abuse at an older bloke for a large majority of the match. They were mocking his appearance and less than intelligent nature. In the end he flipped and started hurling abuse at them. Who get ejected? He did. I tried telling the stewards what had happened and they weren’t interested.maybe we should hear this old guys story before making assumptions?And when he’s identified and reported we can do that. We can hear his side of events. I made no assumptions at all. What I witnessed was a fully grown man insulting and swearing at an 8 year old at a football match. I don’t even particularly care if the 8 year old did say something offensive to the man. That doesn’t give any adult the right to shout and swear at a child. Does it? The 8 year old was with his, presumably, grandad. No other children with him. The 8 year was holding back tears. So based on what I’ve witnessed and reported to you here can you explain any possible situation where bullying an 8 year old is acceptable? Even if the 8 year said or did something the man didn’t like is it acceptable? You don’t seem even remotely concerned about the welfare of the child from all of your posts. Most humans would find it unacceptable to bully an 8 year old...Maybe the older man has social anxiety issues?Maybe he has another condition.Maybe anything, as I’ve said I’ve seen similar things happen before, and unless all the facts are known, it isn’t right to name and shame someone who probably doesn’t have the function to defend themselves on a public forum.Keep digging, your self prepared hole will only get deeper.
5 on tour- if you are bothered enough to write a long post then why didn’t you speak to him yourself? He’s obviously upset you with the way he’s act
Quote from: knockers on October 30, 2019, 06:21:07 am5 on tour- if you are bothered enough to write a long post then why didn’t you speak to him yourself? He’s obviously upset you with the way he’s actit isn't his job to challenge him it is the stewards that is what they are paid for, if he went to him for a word he could get a banning order if a fight was to start so not his place to