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Maybe read this NRhttps://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/01/sarah-everard-murder-police-commissioner-apologises-for-saying-women-should-be-more-streetwiseAnd thishttps://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/01/police-log-10000-indecent-exposure-cases-but-fewer-than-600-reach-courtAnd then think about what any of your female relatives and friends would think if they were alone and were stopped by police or were flashed by some mind numbingly thicko out at night?
Quote from: SydneyRover on October 02, 2021, 09:32:13 amMaybe read this NRhttps://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/01/sarah-everard-murder-police-commissioner-apologises-for-saying-women-should-be-more-streetwiseAnd thishttps://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/01/police-log-10000-indecent-exposure-cases-but-fewer-than-600-reach-courtAnd then think about what any of your female relatives and friends would think if they were alone and were stopped by police or were flashed by some mind numbingly thicko out at night?You must think I don’t read the news.The police commissioner is one person. Wayne couzens was one person. ( although person is a stretch I admit)Beverley Allitt was one personHarold Shipman was one person. The Ipswich trucker that killed those prostitutes was one person. Then there are all those men of the cloth who have abused their position to abuse children. Jimmy Saville.I can speak of magistrates and judges who have been convicted of possession and distribution of indecent images.Scout leaders the same Teachers the same The list goes on and on and on. The vast majority of these people that have done the most atrocious crimes within their community are people of trust. Sadly, history shows that society has been littered with these types. And sadly, despite our best efforts, it will continue to do so. Their actions do not mean that we plunge everyone, every single other person in that profession, into suspicion and mistrust.To do so would be quite ridiculous. Fear of going to the doctors. Fear of going to a hospital, fear of going to a church, fear of walking the streets. Fear of the police. My wife of 31 years and my 75 yr old grandmother think it’s absolutely ridiculous that the Police are getting hammered for this. As do many of my other female friends. I’ve got news for you. The world is a very nice place, full of very nice people but every so often , we get to see the not so nice side of human behaviour. It’s called life. And to suggest we start mistrusting the police is going to make life in general a lot less nice.But don’t take my word for it. Might I suggest you go spend some time living in a Country like Albania. Where the Police are not trusted. And for good reason.Treat people like you expected to be treated yourself. You cannot, nor should you, plan or legislate for the Wayne Couzens of this world.
Quote from: SydneyRover on October 02, 2021, 09:32:13 amMaybe read this NRhttps://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/01/sarah-everard-murder-police-commissioner-apologises-for-saying-women-should-be-more-streetwiseAnd thishttps://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/01/police-log-10000-indecent-exposure-cases-but-fewer-than-600-reach-courtAnd then think about what any of your female relatives and friends would think if they were alone and were stopped by police or were flashed by some mind numbingly thicko out at night?You must think I don’t read the news.The police commissioner is one person. Wayne couzens was one person. ( although person is a stretch I admit)The police Commissioner of a whole area of North Yorkshire is victim blaming was one personHarold Shipman was one person. The Ipswich trucker that killed those prostitutes was one person. Then there are all those men of the cloth who have abused their position to abuse children. Jimmy Saville.I can speak of magistrates and judges who have been convicted of possession and distribution of indecent images.Scout leaders the same Teachers the same The list goes on and on and on. The vast majority of these people that have done the most atrocious crimes within their community are people of trust. Sadly, history shows that society has been littered with these types. And sadly, despite our best efforts, it will continue to do so. Their actions do not mean that we plunge everyone, every single other person in that profession, into suspicion and mistrust.To do so would be quite ridiculous. Fear of going to the doctors. Fear of going to a hospital, fear of going to a church, fear of walking the streets. Fear of the police. My wife of 31 years and my 75 yr old grandmother think it’s absolutely ridiculous that the Police are getting hammered for this. As do many of my other female friends. I’ve got news for you. The world is a very nice place, full of very nice people but every so often , we get to see the not so nice side of human behaviour. It’s called life. And to suggest we start mistrusting the police is going to make life in general a lot less nice.But don’t take my word for it. Might I suggest you go spend some time living in a Country like Albania. Where the Police are not trusted. And for good reason.Treat people like you expected to be treated yourself. You cannot, nor should you, plan or legislate for the Wayne Couzens of this world.
Quote from: normal rules on October 02, 2021, 02:13:25 pmQuote from: SydneyRover on October 02, 2021, 09:32:13 amMaybe read this NRhttps://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/01/sarah-everard-murder-police-commissioner-apologises-for-saying-women-should-be-more-streetwiseAnd thishttps://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/01/police-log-10000-indecent-exposure-cases-but-fewer-than-600-reach-courtAnd then think about what any of your female relatives and friends would think if they were alone and were stopped by police or were flashed by some mind numbingly thicko out at night?You must think I don’t read the news.The police commissioner is one person. Wayne couzens was one person. ( although person is a stretch I admit)Beverley Allitt was one personHarold Shipman was one person. The Ipswich trucker that killed those prostitutes was one person. Then there are all those men of the cloth who have abused their position to abuse children. Jimmy Saville.I can speak of magistrates and judges who have been convicted of possession and distribution of indecent images.Scout leaders the same Teachers the same The list goes on and on and on. The vast majority of these people that have done the most atrocious crimes within their community are people of trust. Sadly, history shows that society has been littered with these types. And sadly, despite our best efforts, it will continue to do so. Their actions do not mean that we plunge everyone, every single other person in that profession, into suspicion and mistrust.To do so would be quite ridiculous. Fear of going to the doctors. Fear of going to a hospital, fear of going to a church, fear of walking the streets. Fear of the police. My wife of 31 years and my 75 yr old grandmother think it’s absolutely ridiculous that the Police are getting hammered for this. As do many of my other female friends. I’ve got news for you. The world is a very nice place, full of very nice people but every so often , we get to see the not so nice side of human behaviour. It’s called life. And to suggest we start mistrusting the police is going to make life in general a lot less nice.But don’t take my word for it. Might I suggest you go spend some time living in a Country like Albania. Where the Police are not trusted. And for good reason.Treat people like you expected to be treated yourself. You cannot, nor should you, plan or legislate for the Wayne Couzens of this world.Great post and puts things into perspective.The police are far from being as rotten through as some might want us to believe.
I’d love to live in the world you aspire to SR. Without imperfection. Without human error.Without people who make bad choices.Without misogyny.Without racismWithout bigotry.Without prejudice.Without crime.Without murder.I went in my local Waterstones today to seek out a book. Guess what, the shelves in there are full of books covering the sorts of topics I refer to above. Crime, hate, racism, murder, bigotry, imperfection, human error. We read about it, write about it, some practice it, some fantasise about it, some challenge it, some accept it, some are in denial of it.and guess what, some do their very best to Police it. There will be plenty of lone women being spoken to, up,and down the country by police tonight. Sadly many will be victims of domestic abuse. Some will be lone motorists, possibly involved in an accident who need help, some may be missing persons, or suffering with mental health issues. You wont hear of the hundreds of such events tomorrow in the news. Because in the 21c in this country, people doing good things do not make the news. Instead we focus on the bad. And we have become far too good at it. I don’t want a world where everyone seeks to lay blame at the feet of all of those who do their utmost to make life good, but whose efforts are undermined by a very very small minority.And if we disagree on this, then might I suggest our lives are very different, and it has nothing to do with politics, race or gender.
You are quite right.Let’s defund the police.
Quote from: drfchound on October 02, 2021, 07:22:16 pmQuote from: normal rules on October 02, 2021, 02:13:25 pmQuote from: SydneyRover on October 02, 2021, 09:32:13 amMaybe read this NRhttps://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/01/sarah-everard-murder-police-commissioner-apologises-for-saying-women-should-be-more-streetwiseAnd thishttps://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/oct/01/police-log-10000-indecent-exposure-cases-but-fewer-than-600-reach-courtAnd then think about what any of your female relatives and friends would think if they were alone and were stopped by police or were flashed by some mind numbingly thicko out at night?You must think I don’t read the news.The police commissioner is one person. Wayne couzens was one person. ( although person is a stretch I admit)Beverley Allitt was one personHarold Shipman was one person. The Ipswich trucker that killed those prostitutes was one person. Then there are all those men of the cloth who have abused their position to abuse children. Jimmy Saville.I can speak of magistrates and judges who have been convicted of possession and distribution of indecent images.Scout leaders the same Teachers the same The list goes on and on and on. The vast majority of these people that have done the most atrocious crimes within their community are people of trust. Sadly, history shows that society has been littered with these types. And sadly, despite our best efforts, it will continue to do so. Their actions do not mean that we plunge everyone, every single other person in that profession, into suspicion and mistrust.To do so would be quite ridiculous. Fear of going to the doctors. Fear of going to a hospital, fear of going to a church, fear of walking the streets. Fear of the police. My wife of 31 years and my 75 yr old grandmother think it’s absolutely ridiculous that the Police are getting hammered for this. As do many of my other female friends. I’ve got news for you. The world is a very nice place, full of very nice people but every so often , we get to see the not so nice side of human behaviour. It’s called life. And to suggest we start mistrusting the police is going to make life in general a lot less nice.But don’t take my word for it. Might I suggest you go spend some time living in a Country like Albania. Where the Police are not trusted. And for good reason.Treat people like you expected to be treated yourself. You cannot, nor should you, plan or legislate for the Wayne Couzens of this world.Great post and puts things into perspective.The police are far from being as rotten through as some might want us to believe.Provided you are white, male, non-bame and conservative.
What a strange world we live in, blokes on a third tier football forum reckon everything is fine (on behalf of women) but the Scottish police don't and neither does the PM .........
Quote from: SydneyRover on October 03, 2021, 11:47:11 amWhat a strange world we live in, blokes on a third tier football forum reckon everything is fine (on behalf of women) but the Scottish police don't and neither does the PM .........And at no point have I said everything is fine. Quite the opposite. And I most certainly don’t talk for women.