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I don’t want to bring this topic back to our club, but I will in the first instance…There are so many people waiting to criticise everything the club does, and so many that think they know better than those in charge. But, leaving transfer budgets and strategies to one side, something I think comes through really clearly are the values of the club. We lead by example, and we won’t allow those values to be compromised. For that reason I’m very confident we’d never tolerate a character like Mason Greenwood appears to be if he is indeed the subject of that clip, and that pleases me. I could never ever cheer on a player that’s shown themselves to behave like that, no matter how good they are. And I’m proud to support a club that stands up for the right things, as we did when Niall Mason’s actions risked bringing the name of the club into disrepute. Back to Greenwood, and I get that he’s innocent until proven guilty, I don’t actually care who it is. There’s someone in that recording, and whether it’s Greenwood or someone else (and the chances are it is him) they are a vile and disgusting human being. Aside from the injuries caused to that poor girl, which are of course horrific, the way that scumbag spoke to her is something I find truly upsetting to listen to. And I fear it’s a much wider problem than this one shocking incident. That voice and those words are reflective of a deep seeded problem in society, where some men believe they can play up to an image and speak to (and treat) a woman in such a shamefully derogatory fashion. It makes my blood boil. And it’s up to the good men amongst us to call that kind of behaviour out when we see or suspect any sign of it.
I know virtually nothing about this case, but surely he deserves a fair hearing before he’s hung?What on earth brings someone to report such an alleged crime on Facebook?
Quote from: belton rover on January 30, 2022, 08:44:28 pmI know virtually nothing about this case, but surely he deserves a fair hearing before he’s hung?What on earth brings someone to report such an alleged crime on Facebook?if you listen to the recordings it appears that his girlfriend made secretly, it makes his defense quite tricky to say the least. The only thing that bothers me is the timings, I believe they split up 6 months ago, why wait now to air it, plus firstly on Instagram and not at the police station?
Any pointing the finger at when and how she decided to share this is an unnecessary distraction from the only issue here - what’s in it. I’m not in favour of trial by media but, as I’ve said above, I don’t care who’s in the clip. The fact is that someone is, and whoever that is he’s a vile and disgusting excuse for a human being.
He's shit anyway. Well over rated as a footballer. Not relevant to the topic but just wanted to say.
Part of the problem, imo, is this microanalysing of the women's motivations in making the allegation.Why did she wait til now? Why did she do it this way? Why didn't she go straight to the police? And so on. All the emphasis is on the victim, and not the perpetrator. And in cases like this with a public figure, you get that times 10000. There is a certain breed of bloke out there who's first instinct on hearing a story like this is to accuse the woman of lying - not that I'm accusing anyone on this thread of that btw. But it shows you how hard it must be for a young woman to come forward with any of it. I'd certainly think twice in her shoes. None of this takes into account how safe women should feel dealing with the police anyway, which is a whole other can of worms given the many, many bad apples we have in the cops in this country. And as RA said, the chances of conviction are amazingly low, so is it worth going through all of that when your chances of getting justice are so low?Truthfully most of us on this forum are blokes and we'll probably never experience anything like this as the victim. It's easy to sit there and say you'd do this or that, or your wife would do this or that, but you don't know, and hopefully you never find out. We've still got a long way to go before this problem gets solved, but I think we can all play a small part in it by listening when women share stuff like this. That and the whole innocent until proven guilty thing don't have to be mutually exclusive.
Quote from: MachoMadness on January 30, 2022, 10:59:12 pmPart of the problem, imo, is this microanalysing of the women's motivations in making the allegation.Why did she wait til now? Why did she do it this way? Why didn't she go straight to the police? And so on. All the emphasis is on the victim, and not the perpetrator. And in cases like this with a public figure, you get that times 10000. There is a certain breed of bloke out there who's first instinct on hearing a story like this is to accuse the woman of lying - not that I'm accusing anyone on this thread of that btw. But it shows you how hard it must be for a young woman to come forward with any of it. I'd certainly think twice in her shoes. None of this takes into account how safe women should feel dealing with the police anyway, which is a whole other can of worms given the many, many bad apples we have in the cops in this country. And as RA said, the chances of conviction are amazingly low, so is it worth going through all of that when your chances of getting justice are so low?Truthfully most of us on this forum are blokes and we'll probably never experience anything like this as the victim. It's easy to sit there and say you'd do this or that, or your wife would do this or that, but you don't know, and hopefully you never find out. We've still got a long way to go before this problem gets solved, but I think we can all play a small part in it by listening when women share stuff like this. That and the whole innocent until proven guilty thing don't have to be mutually exclusive.Generally its about power and control in the relationship .The abuse and everything else is a symptom of that .That's basically what it is exercising power and control .Whether that's because of who he is or he's always been that person who knows .Maybe at one time he was a rounded Bradford lad and when he found fame and fortune that came with responsibility he couldn't handle again who knows .Maybe when enough people tell you are special and pay you accordingly it does things to your head , obviously I wouldn't know .Then again I've always thought you know right from wrong irrespective of your background .If you don't see it at home you see it in school .It's a limp view in my opinion who tries to give it the well he didn't know any different .Pay young adults millions of pounds for simply kicking a football it maybe a good idea to give them an education whilst your at it .The game needs to take a good look at itself , Greenword isn't the first and he won't be the last either .